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Tuesday, November 03, 2009

家中試相..
終於玩壞左小寶貝.. 要拎去整喇 哈

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Friday, October 23, 2009

老土啲講
出外靠朋友
原來呢句說話唔止應用喺外地
香港..  甚至係後面山
都遇到「朋友」呢~

在家養病幾日,仍未有好轉
連自己都覺得應該落街曬下頭頂啲菇仔
想不到行平路都很辛苦
天黑回家前決定上後面山走走 練下氣
竟遇上一位行山阿姨問可唔可以同行
世事都很出奇的  
總意想不到連想自己一個行山,上天都給我找來一個伴兒
邊個陪邊個都好  兩個人行總會安全一點
阿姨也是這樣的「歧途」
你知道長輩有時候都喜歡說話麻
於是一路上呢位阿姨都有好多唔同既話題去講
可能唔識既關係  佢都講得幾開懷的
佢仲帶我去左啲前人建既山邊平台
有麻雀枱,有爐
似乎都是退休人士既聚腳地
以前我上山,都未有留意
阿姨很感激的說了多次的感謝  
感謝上天今天遇上一個年紀像女兒的行山伴
也感激說起  自己一點都不聰明
唯獨好運的是有疼自己的丈夫和沒有變壞的兒女
遇惡人都不敢哼半聲
商場上忍氣多年  終於等到而家寫意既生活
喜歡行山就行  喜歡傾計就傾
都唔指意仔女會點陪自己
自己有自己既生活就最好了 也就等於他們沒有這樣的負擔了
現在生活得太美了
她邊說 眼眶都閃著希望的
尤其天色昏暗了也能看到
臨走前她說回家拿兩個羅漢果給我
就咁煲水對治咳或日常飲用都很好
也多謝我聽她說話那麼久了
我謝過呢位行山阿姨
回家決定試下
自來羅漢果會唔會靈啲呢
在嘗別人的謝意時
也想 我要不要也分一點時候去聆聽家中長輩既煩音呢
只是聽聽,或者佢地都會滿心歡喜
當然..佢地會更不厭其煩
anyway
 有樣野叫目標為本
清楚便可

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Sammy既新歌唔錯  「罪與罰」
只係唔喜歡佢電台既promo
話將福音帶入去
pop
成件事娘晒..

但其中一句仍是很有意思
「誰願諒過你, 可否牢牢銘記」

 


Sunday, October 11, 2009

假如劇情講到男主角對穿越時空的能力不能自控
導致兩個人的關係由好奇, 熱戀, 包容, 到 習以為常, 厭倦
這樣不能自控的生活不也是每個人的通病嗎
所以我們同樣會經歷生趣到生厭的苦果
可能, 有天如果我們都是穿梭時空的人
能夠在想逃避的時候   跳過時空去找回最初令自己為之心動的知己
對自己一無所知的愛侶一吐真言
我們或者不再怪罪於身邊的伴侶
不再試圖偷食
不再需要背叛和離棄
因為  我們生厭的
只是無法改變的生活
無法解決的問題
那個人  一直也沒變
命運能否改善, 已經不再是劇本的重點
要所有人明白這點, 劇情將男主角的死因, 寫為剎那之間所發生的事
加上之前遇上的意外導致主角行動不便
令男主角的死亡成了比釘鐵更堅實的事實
再一次告訴你 不要再去想反駁的餘地
因為拆解錯亂的時間線不是劇裡的重點
再處於光明位置也好,  生命總是無常

如果time traveller係女孩子的話
命運會不會更可悲呢?
畢竟  女孩子能夠默默地等好一會
男孩子卻不能守在原位     為不知明的事情久等
不過  想多一會
又或者男孩可能是最佳的 wait-ter
因為他們懂得幹著等;女孩子就是光等,儘管手上要處理的事很多

 

很喜歡戲裡無意滲出既關節位  連接得令人窩心
hoohoo anyway..   因為係愛情片的關係
唔需要反駁太多
不過我還有疑問
點解要寫到喺女主角 18歲之後就一直無見過男角? 
再重遇既時候男角點解唔知道女孩就係自己既另一半呢? 
婚禮上, 不是有個更年輕的Henry 出現嗎? 
又, 男角唔係五歲開始就可以 time travel 嗎?

 

原著簡介: Time traveller's wife

Using alternating first-person perspectives, the novel tells the stories of Henry DeTamble (born 1963), a librarian at the Newberry Library in Chicago, and his wife, Clare Abshire (born 1971), an artist who makes paper sculptures. Henry has a rare genetic disorder, which comes to be known as Chrono-Displacement, that causes him to involuntarily travel through time. When 20-year-old Clare meets 28-year-old Henry at the Newberry Library in 1991 at the opening of the novel, he has never seen her before, although she has known him most of her life.

Henry begins time traveling at the age of five, jumping forward and backward relative to his own timeline. He is unable to control his travels: when he leaves, where he goes, or how long his trip will last. His destinations are tied to his subconscious—he most often travels to places and times related to his own history. Certain stimuli such as stress can trigger Henry's time traveling; he often goes jogging to keep calm and remain in the present. He also searches out pharmaceuticals in the future that may be able to control his time traveling and seeks the advice of a geneticist, Dr. Kendrick. Henry cannot take anything with him into the future or the past; he always arrives naked and struggles to find clothing, shelter and food. He amasses a number of survival skills including lock-picking, self defense and pickpocketing. Much of this he learns from older versions of himself.

"It's hard being left behind. I wait for Henry, not knowing where he is, wondering if he's okay. It's hard to be the one who stays."
—Clare[1]

Once their timelines converge "naturally" at the library—their first meeting in his chronology—Henry starts to travel to Clare's childhood and adolescence in South Haven, Michigan, beginning in 1977 when she is six years old. On one of his early visits (from her perspective), Henry gives her a list of the dates he will appear and she writes them in a diary so she will remember to provide him with clothes and food when he arrives. During another visit, he inadvertently reveals that they will be married in the future. Over time they develop a close relationship. At one point, Henry helps Clare frighten and humiliate a boy who abused her. Clare is last visited in her youth by Henry in 1989, on her eighteenth birthday, during which they make love for the first time. They are then separated for two years until their meeting at the library.

Clare and Henry marry, but Clare has trouble bringing a pregnancy to term because of the genetic anomaly Henry is presumably passing on to the fetus. After six miscarriages, Henry wishes to save Clare further pain and has a vasectomy. However a version of Henry from the past visits Clare one night and gets her pregnant; she subsequently gives birth to a daughter, Alba. Alba is diagnosed with Chrono-Displacement but, unlike Henry, she has some control over her destinations when she time travels. Before she is born, Henry travels to the future and meets his ten-year-old daughter on a school field trip and learns that he died when she was five years old.

When he is 43, during what is to be his last year of life, Henry time travels to a Chicago parking garage on a frigid winter night where he is unable to find shelter. As a result of the hypothermia and frostbite he suffers, his feet are amputated when he returns to the present. Henry and Clare both know that without the ability to escape when he time travels, Henry will certainly die within his next few jumps. On New Year's Eve 2006 Henry time travels into the middle of the Michigan woods in 1984 and is accidentally shot by Clare's brother, a scene foreshadowed earlier in the novel. Henry returns to the present and dies in Clare's arms.

Clare is devastated by Henry's passing. She later finds a letter from Henry which asks her to "stop waiting" for him, but which describes a moment in her future when she will see him. The last scene in the book takes place when Clare is 82 and Henry is 43. She is waiting for Henry, as she has done her whole life, and when he arrives, he clasps her in his arms.

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在聽 Zee Avi - Is it the end
又有一陣莫明的感嘆在圍繞




Tuesday, September 22, 2009

據說早上還有說有笑的
大家還在為未來去計劃
Kat也想不到事情會發生得咁突然


我坐枱邊,努力落單
準備好所以收工的rundown交俾Designer
豈料下午三時許
有人正式通知我
「單以後交俾另一位同事」
「為什麼」
她支吾了一會
「他離職了,即日生效」
我跟剛掛上電話的Kat都O了咀
不是麻,那位Designer還在跟我的單,我的劇,他做錯了什麼要即日離開
「他今朝還在跟我談論之後的廠期喎」Kat很驚訝
我同樣疑惑
於是打電話給他
「沒法幫你了,還是先收拾東西,再傾吧」
再過不一會
我走到Designer房,希望了解多一點
算是八卦又好,關心也好
看到兩眼都紅了的他還在慢條斯理的整理桌子
他說「有排執了」
好明顯他不想離開
當了剛剛好廿年的他,是最好被開刀的豬肉
只是想不到連九月還剩幾天的時間公司都等唔到
寧願賠足俾你走
我想這公司古怪到不得了
做得更遜色的人大有人在,該炒的還未輪到他吧
到底公司在養什麼人... 要養什麼人
我心氣憤「這公司不做也擺」
「但係出面已經好難找到這裡的人工了...而且唔知做咩好
又養人又養樓
家下老豆仲要無工返無錢收
牛喺屋企又遇中年危機
實會有家庭嘔鬥」
難得他還會說笑
我們互相問候一下之後,然後,已經唔知講咩好
保重

對的,能夠以氣風範的,就只有我們這一班無牽無掛的死0靚仔
說什麼理想,想抱什麼不平
長大了之後,不都會成為像他一樣周身顧慮
為五斗米折腰的人嗎
Designer阿頭也一樣,走一個人,他就多做一樣
但依然無能為力反抗
唯有做
做死為止
身處喺一個咁污濁的空間入面
我們無能為力去自由呼吸
眼見別人的悲痛
我們無能為力幫助
想為塵封的感情再著點色
卻又是無能為力
假如是面臨死亡的巷口
何不互推一把
早一點了結更好

為什麼總是... 無能為力
這感覺... 很顫傲..
想揍近..  卻被推開的感覺.....    更甚..






Sunday, September 20, 2009

今次同上次有啲唔同..
上次沒有辯護硬哽的
最後淚如雨下
今次又遇上同樣喪狂的人,我把握機會說出自己的聲音
唔做無聲的骨頭
換來既結果還都是一樣
硬食
只係意義又深左一重
眾人都聽得出錯不在你
你還最後得送別人聲聲怉歉之餘
回家後又得收到老細的電話
解說剛才應運用一下說話的技巧去避免事情的發生
我聽了,甚為氣極
怎麼做阿哥阿姐的就不用想辦法去解決問題
就不需要尊重別人
就可以連開工的時候不接電話也大條道理話你做咩唔用第啲方法去搵佢
也不需要任何說話技巧
只懂得掟袋發難的脾氣,我七歲都曉了
而家廿多歲我都未識收斂的話,我就會為自己感到可恥
可是一個三十幾歲既媽媽還會做出這種幼稚的行為
我只能希望佢一世都能夠活在溫室之中,自我之中好了

我沒有對老細生氣
因為我知道她的位置也有難度
在電話筒裡
我慶幸有您運用”說話的技巧”跟我說了人生道理
這兒受的氣,都是讓自己進步的能量
就算多希望起圍一次,
最後還是哽下這鼓衝動
因為議氣沒有令事情好轉
因為跟眼中沒有別人的人議氣,不如自己尋短

 

媽的
當你的囡囡在發燒華氏九十幾度時  我的爸爸也在院吸氧氣

 


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